When you have to realize that you can only do so much without going insane. No one likes an insane student/wife/mommy. So my latest realization has been about my class schedule. My plan was to take 12 credits this semester and 13 next. With the type of classes I have this semester alone this won't work. So I dropped a class and now have 9 credits. I figured that in 4 years I could have a bachelor's degree and be licensed physical therapy assistant. But that meant a lot of stress and more time than I have. So my focus right now is going to be becoming a PTA and not worry about a bachelors. I think this will be the best thing for me and my family even though it was a hard decision to make.